Aloha! My world of life stories :
Eric and me were together for 2 years, before we decided to strengthen our love on 22 Feb 2000.
After 4 years of wonderful, tenderly loving couple time together, we decided to add some laughter and joy in our life.
Ayden is our 1st love who was borne in 2004, and Alsten is the latest addition to the family.
Thanks to all prayers answered, now we have 2 lovely angel boys.
Well, these days handling Alsten is no easy feat... I tell you, he's so mischievous, so cranky, so clingy, so EVERYTHING! I thought Ayden is mischievous, oh boy! This little chap is tenfold worse... He cries to get his way through, screams to voice his dis-satisfaction, shriek to gain attention... whatever I pray hard for my boy not to be, he's becoming one tough nut to crack. Talk about comparison, Ayden is really so so much better. Friends who knows me, knows well what a strict disciplinarian I am, but I can't handle this little chap. He's so totally not afraid of me and everything. Very 'garang' chap, I would say.
But I have to admit though, I feel so unfair for Ayden. My little one is so mischievous right? But I seldom beat him, like I do with Ayden. No wonder everyone says, that the 2nd kid will always be the luckier one... but the eldest kid will always be the most well-behaved one, and the one who bears the blunt of all mistakes (unfortunately). Somehow, you kinda learn to relax more with the 2nd kid, I tend to let loose more. I talked and reason out more with him than I do with Ayden. Too 'experience' to even bother about simple things... I have a very bo-chap attitude now.. I also don't know why... But one thing I'm still very strict though, it's discipline.. You don't discipline them now, you'll regret it later. But personally, I always believe : You spare the rod, You'll spoil the kid.
See? He loves to walk around with his new 'hat' now...
