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Thursday, May 15, 2008Y
Missing daddy

Now I've realised that Ayden has really grown big already. I think being separated with daddy is taking a toll on him, he's been bugging me about when is daddy coming back? Why daddy take so long? Why daddy must go so far to work?

I remembered that he was barely few months old when Eric was posted overseas for work. At that time, he hardly remembered his daddy, not close with daddy at all even though he's on the phone with him nearly everyday. Then when daddy comes home, he doesn't want to be carried by daddy, not even wanting to hold hands, it just breaks Eric's heart to see his son like that.

We decided to relocate to Shanghai when he's about 2 1/2 years old, by then we decided that it's the right time with Ayden being easier to take care and me, quitting flying after 10 yrs. Things started to improve from there tremendously, Eric's always around playing with him. Making an effort to be back home if he can, bought all things that Ayden requested or wished for to compensate for all the time lost.

Slowly, he's warming to the idea that daddy is always there for him, bathe with him, kick ball with him and play with him. So now that he's grown big, he began to realise that he loves daddy very very much, wakes up in the middle of the night crying for him. Seeing him like this makes my heart ache too... but all's well ends well, daddy will be coming home soon and we'll be just like any other happy family...

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