Aloha! My world of life stories :
Eric and me were together for 2 years, before we decided to strengthen our love on 22 Feb 2000.
After 4 years of wonderful, tenderly loving couple time together, we decided to add some laughter and joy in our life.
Ayden is our 1st love who was borne in 2004, and Alsten is the latest addition to the family.
Thanks to all prayers answered, now we have 2 lovely angel boys.
Phew, the fearsome 4 stage has gone passed. Ayden's back to normal now, except that he's just more manja than before, probably cos of the little brother, other than that, I got my dear Ayden back. At least no more screaming, yelling and tantrum throwing at the moment, he just snapped out of it suddenly. Well, Ah ni (my maid) is so glad cos she got the worse of it. He's learnt to respect her and as far as I know, I don't hear him scolding her anymore. Maybe it's cos I decided to focus on him more.
Since last week, I told Ah ni that from now onwards, Alsten's gonna be taken care of by her whenever Ayden needs me. Sometimes, he would want me to feed him, shower him or read books to him, so at this point of time, she's gonna help me with Alsten's needs. I figured, babies don't really need much attention now, the big brother needs more. I need to be there for Ayden as I don't want him to feel neglected. He needs to learn that daddy and mummy still loves him the same as before. At least when Ayden goes to school for a few hours, I have this period of time to bond with my little baby. And it seemed to work, I learnt to let go of my baby, and Ayden is a much happier kid now.